I’m tackling one of the biggest double standards out there. Why if a man sleeps with 50 chicks it’s okay but for a female she’s considered a hoe? The age old double standard. It’s been a source of contention between women and men since the days of hoe’n began. I don’t when that was…. I’ll say September 28th 1942.
First let me say that we can all agree that there are double standards that favor men and those that favor women. At first glance, and by some women, this particular one would seem to be unfair but I beg to differ. In order to be truly upset that men can be allowed to rack up bodies like a pro-athlete with no stigma attached whatsoever it would mean that, well…that’s what YOU want to do. Right? I mean, why else would the argument exist?
Think about it. Females complain that a man should be looked at like a hoe too and hey, I agree that a man can be a whore but the stigma attached to it is not the same. A man whore doesn’t get looked at like damaged goods but a female whore definitely does. So what’s the problem? Is it just a principle thing where women want men to have the same pressure to keep it in their pants as they do? Or are all these women just mad because they want to be out fucking every guy in town and not be labeled for it?
Here’s why it makes sense that a man can be a whore but a woman can’t.
No man wants to look at a woman and think “Man, she’s been slayed more times than King Koopa at the end of Super Mario Bros. I gotta wife that.” A woman is a delicate creature. She’s soft, she smells good, she bakes cookies and raises children. She is not supposed to be fucking for Twitter followers and Boost Mobile minutes. I joke but you get my point.
The double standard exists where it’s okay for a chick to sleep with bitches on the side and still be with men but a guy can’t do it because well, that’s just gay as fuck. Do you hear men complaining about this? No. Why? Because they don’t want to be sleeping with men. It isn’t an issue because it’s not something they want to be doing! So am I supposed to think that women are mad because they want to be able to justify all the hoe shit they do or they want free reign to top off the block? Or is it just that women love to argue and it’s just something to fight about? I say, Let’s choose our battles ladies. I care more about why men get paid more money than women for the same jobs than why they’re allowed and praised for smashing a shitload of chicks.
Fact: Most chicks won’t rule a dude out that’s slept with a lot of girls (unless he hasn’t slowed down and is still randomly getting puss) but most men will rule out a chick whose pussy’s been visited more times than the Grand Canyon.
I mean if you want to be able to sleep with a lot of men and not be labeled as a whore or carry the negative connotations that come with that then hey…it’s your vagina not mine and continue to whine about why the double standard isn’t fair.
If not, then why make it an issue? Women and men are held to different standards period. That’s life. A woman can stay at home and take care of the kids but if a man does it he’s looked at like a pussy. Double Standard. A woman can live at home well into her 20′s without getting the same reactions from a man that’s living at home. Double Standard. I say if you’re a certain age and you haven’t left the house yet it doesn’t matter if you’re a guy or girl. Get your shit together.
So, it may seem like I’m on the guys side with this one but I’m more so on the side of reason. Let’s be reasonable here.
Unless you’re just a stone cold whore I say let the men have this one.
How do you feel about it? Do you think it’s unjust or is it something you argue about just for argument’s sake? Do you wish you could sleep around with being labeled a hoe? Do you think there’s something wrong with man whores? Would you date a man whore?
Fellas would you date a girl whose had more partners than you? Do you think the double standard is unfair to women?
Lot’s of questions right? Hey..I’m just wondering if it’s just me that doesn’t care about this particular double standard nshit. Sound off.